Opening up to someone can be completely liberating and comfortable on a lot of levels. But, when you open up to someone completely you also tend to show them the side of you that no one has seen. The sad, hard and depressing side of you. Our vulnerabilities are visible to people in front of whom we have opened ourselves completely. These vulnerabilities are not just physical or situational, they also include the emotional insecurities and trauma that we go through. It can be very difficult to guess all of these from a distance so here are some signs that show how vulnerable you are according to the zodiac sign you belong to.
As an Aries, you are a headstrong woman who is always determined. But, if things don’t go as per your plan you get easily frustrated and annoyed. You are most likely to express yourself when you are frustrated, irritated or angry.
You are vulnerable when you have to open up and let your partner in. You are very possessive about your space and secretive about what you think. When you are in a relationship, you have a lot of trouble showing this side of you.
As a Gemini, you follow fun a lot. Which makes you focus less on your partner. Changing what you feel and your antics often leaves you vulnerable and uncertain on a lot of levels.
One of the biggest things that leave you vulnerable is the fear that you might lose your partner. You love them so ardently and intensely that you depend a lot on them. You love a lot and you fear that you might not have what you have today.
It is very difficult for you to put your pride aside. Your pride and your ego are the most intrinsic part of your personality. You have to tone down yourself and that makes you very vulnerable.
You have trouble expressing your emotions and that is why people feel that you are cold. You face a problem when you let your partner come into your life. This isbecause you have always had a special place for everyone in your life. So, letting a new person in can make your incredibly helpless.
Libra’s have a tough time making up their minds on a lot of issues, they also find it difficult to deal with things. They feel deeply but they are just not able to accept how they feel and that makes them vulnerable. Acceptance is one thing they need to sincerely work on.
In a relationship, you feel incredibly vulnerable when you let your guard down. You are hyper-aware of other people’s feelings so you always second guess if your partner actually wants to see you around or not. You basically doubt yourself a lot.
It is not easy for you to sit down and talk about your feelings and emotions. Serious conversations are just not your thing. You often struggle in articulating your emotions and vulnerabilities in a relationship.
You tend to overanalyse every situation. You don’t understand how to deal with feelings and how to love people.
You are used to of depending solely on yourself. It takes time for you to open up. You become vulnerable when you are learning new emotional mannerism. So, that is where you break down and reach a saturation point.
You tend to be a vulnerable person as a whole. You cannot share your life with another person. This is an intrinsic part of your personality yet it is a part that you have wholeheartedly embraced. It is good to have you embrace yourself but it is also equally important for you to accept others, which clearly you don’t.